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Thursday, December 24, 2009

A Heart Broken Girl


Dear Ate Hazel,

Just call me depressed girl. First of all, I really think your book is cool. Na discover ko siya nang mapadpad ako sa bookstore at napabasa. Don’t worry I bought your comic book naman po. Halos mamatay po ako sa katatawa. Anyway, the reason I’m writing is because I have this problem at work. You see, I am a trainer and I fell in love with one of the agents. We started as good friends. He used to be my trainee. He is tall, cute looks and has a good built. Magaling din siyang magcalls and has been assisting team leaders. Anyway, naging kame… it was so unexpected and I fell really deep. He would always give me flowers and love status on facebook. Ate hazel, after three days, iniwan niya ako nang ganun lang… without any reason at all. Basta magulo, bigla siyang nanlamig at inaway niya ako. Of course I have pride and agreed to our break up. I cannot concentrate on my work anymore lalo na ngayon na tuloy tuloy pa ang training class ko. We see each other on the floor pero deadma. After three weeks, nalaman ko na lang na may iba na siyang girlfriend. Everyone sees them kissing pa after their shift. Agent din sa ibang team ang naging gf niya. Simple rin lang ang mukha ng girl… parang ako.. simple. I don’t know what to do… he looks affected naman when we broke up. He was even posting his heart broken drama on Facebook. Ano po ang dapat kong gawin ate Hazel? I feel like quitting my job.

Yours truly,
Depressed girl



Dear Depressed Girl,

First of all, thank you so much for reading and buying Callwork. With regards to your question, ano bang kalandian ang nangyayari diyan sa call center niyo? Haay. I’m sorry but quitting is not the answer to your problem. Hindi ako magpapakaplastik. Masakit yang dinadaanan mo ngayon lalo na kung mahal mo pa siya. Teka, ilan araw lang pla naging kayo? mahal mo na siya?? Baka pride lang yan ha girl…may nangyari na ba sa inyo? Hmmm…. Wala ka na bang makitang ibang boylet diyan na pwedeng ipangtapat mo? Kung wala, you can either go look outside pero never ever loose your focus on work. If ever you feel like quitting, try other call centers din. Malay mo, mameet mo pa yung Knight in Shinning armor sa ibang company. Pero ‘wag kang maiinip. Darating din yan (kahit gasgas na yang linyang iyan) Remember you don’t deserve an asshole like him. Kung mahal ka niya talaga in the first place, aayusin niya yan at hindi pupulot lang ng ibang gf sa tabi tabi.. Good luck. Magpaganda ka at mag exercise ka na lang muna oki? Again thanks for writing. Oo nga pala, pabayaan mo na sila. He’s not worth it na sulutin mo pa.

Hazel
hazelmanzano@yahoo.com

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9 Comments:

At 12:35 AM, Blogger pijong said...

Hi, im JP..isa ring call center agent, tech support nmn ako..comment lng ako kay broken hearted, kse nakaka relate ako sa story, pero since im a guy, ako ung guy sa story, nangyare rin saken..parang nanabla ako ng naging GF sa floor na pinag palit ko rin sa iba..lam mo nangyare saken, KARMA>>isang malaking bad karma..pinagpalit din ako nung girl..hehe,

kaya, dont worry, God always have ways for everything, kahit hindi mo hinihiling =)

So you just go on and smile, focus sa trabaho, tutal yan nmn ang reason kung bkt ka nandyn dba?hindi nmn siguro para magka bf lng, right?

salamat..

and to Hazel, astig mga gawa mo, kanina ko lng nabasa and super tawa talaga ako..galing, keep it up!


-JP, Pasig

 
At 3:01 AM, Blogger fpj jr said...

Galing naman ni Ate Hazel... cartoon artist na... good adviser pa!

Relationships at work are really complicated...hindi naman ako experto pero from these experiences ko nauunawaan ang mga sitwasyon. I do hope everything would turn out fine...

 
At 12:54 AM, Blogger Hazel Manzano said...

pijong- ayan depressed girl, kita mo na ang nangyari kay JP. Focus lang sa trabaho... yan naman ang main reson kung bket ka andyan.

thanks JP, keep on reading callwork!

FPJ Jr. - lolz... complicated talaga mga relationships sa office kasi alam ng lahat kung kelan kayo nagaaway bati... pero carry lang yan kung it makles you happy.

 
At 9:48 PM, Blogger Mark Rosario said...

Aba!.. Me "Dear Ate Hazel" portion na pala tong blog mo. Lupit! Heheh. Happy New Year nga pala sayo at sa baby mo. Hope you'll all be happy this 2010.. And more power to Callwork! :)

 
At 8:23 PM, Blogger Hazel Manzano said...

mark - Happy New year! yup may new portion na tayo!

 
At 4:45 PM, Blogger Gio Paredes said...

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At 4:50 PM, Blogger Gio Paredes said...

Dear Ate Hazel,

Meron po akong isang matinding suliranin at sana po ay makatulong kayo.

Nagpapabili po ng PSP ang bunso kong anak at naubos na po ang Cristmas bonus ko. Baka pwede po akong makautang sa inyo. :D

Lubos na gumagalang
-Gio Paredes

 
At 8:33 PM, Blogger Hazel Manzano said...

gio - gago! lolz! see you soon!!!

 
At 12:27 PM, Blogger Quality Assurance Commissar said...

Dr Madame Depressed Girl,

Avoid said relationships if you cannot deal with the complications that come with mixing your professional and love lives.

I know it's hard to have a social life with the whacked hours we keep. However, you can try look for someone from another call center with the same hours.

 

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